6 things to make your mind up after Rejection

In spite of the rejection they encountered, these individuals persevered. Each was challenged to believe in himself or herself when others didn't. Each refused to allow someone else's negative opinion to become a roadblock in the pursuit of lifelong dreams.

You, too, can use the inevitable rejection that comes your way to fortify your belief in yourself and fuel your progress. Here are six steps you can take to master the art of being rejected:


1. Let rejection be a signal to go inward, and do some soul-searching. Ask yourself: What do I really desire to create in my life? Am I pursuing this path because it is truly what I want, or is it what someone else wants for me? Then write down your goals.


2. Use rejection as an opportunity to better yourself. Ask for constructive criticism. Take note of any ways you can perform better next time. Would it help to take a class or read a book on the subject? Then do it.


3. Reconnect with your inner guidance. Close your eyes and ask yourself what the next step is for you. Be still and the answer will come--either right away, or in the next few weeks. Your inner guidance is always moving you towards something, rather than away from something. It gently nudges you to take those actions which will enable the fulfillment of your desires.


4. Remember to lighten up and have fun along the way. When you are following your bliss, you are in alignment with your higher purpose. Let your life be a joyful adventure, in which the journey is as important as the destination. Try not to take yourself so seriously.


5. Remind yourself that encounters with those who do not believe in you are an opportunity to strengthen your belief in yourself, and your commitment to following your inner guidance. Only you hold the map of your life territory within you. Others cannot possibly know what is right for you, or what you are capable of doing, being, or having.


6. Visualize the attainment of your dreams. Put your body in a comfortable position, either seated or lying down. Close your eyes, and take some deep breaths. Imagine that it is a year from now, and that all of your dreams have become a reality. Create a movie in your mind, in which you live those dreams. Make it as real as you can. Be lighthearted and playful with your imagination. Get excited about it. Use all of your senses. Don't worry if you can't see things clearly--its okay if you just sense what it feels like to have attained your goals.


7. Celebrate your rejections, for they are a sure sign that you are stepping out of your comfort zone and living your life to the fullest!